 hile the best gift a man can ultimately lavish upon his father remains that of his time and companionship, a shared experience (read: a father-son wet-shave; hitting the links, et al.) if you will, the truth of the matter is that for many something a touch more tactile (or materialistic) is often the more sensible (as well as practical) route to pursue — in illustrating both our love/respect that is — come Father's Day given most are not blessed with the opportunity (time/means) to travel to bask in one another's jollity at will. |
Having said that, I'd feel remiss should I not make note that while Father's Day is wholly deserving of its own pageantry akin to that perennially ascribed to Mother's Day it rarely (if ever) quite triggers the same sort of shopping frenzy, social attention nor presupposed gifting foresight that the the latter is wont to do. Be that as it may, I'm of the firm belief that it nevertheless remains just as important to demonstrate to one's father that we are as eternally grateful for all the guidance, experience and lessons in life imparted upon us over the years by his own hand as we are for all the nurturing, care and love afforded to us by our mothers; To let him know, if you will, that he too matters to us and both his contributions and influence in shaping who we've become as gentlemen will forevermore be appreciated.
Inasmuch, I am also, to such an end, acutely aware that buying a wholesome (and emotionally triggered) gift for one’s father can often prove to be a difficult task; One oft ripe in kitschy pitfalls and cliched minefields aplenty to which I've hastened myself today to helping you cut through said grime with a gift guide devoid of the type of soulless gifting suggestions that are routinely proffered within any number of perennial gift guide lists the world round.
Gone are tacky socks, novelty ties, cheap trinkets and hip flasks in view of complex (Prohibition era) spirits, elegant continental beach blazers and rakish crochet driving gloves — amongst a host of other investment worthy sartorial/home decor keepsakes — that are each uniquely primed to satiate the needs, desires and tastes of those fathers amongst us (some of ourselves included) with a more discerning (sartorial or otherwise) eye who appreciate the finer things in life.
Inasmuch, I am also, to such an end, acutely aware that buying a wholesome (and emotionally triggered) gift for one’s father can often prove to be a difficult task; One oft ripe in kitschy pitfalls and cliched minefields aplenty to which I've hastened myself today to helping you cut through said grime with a gift guide devoid of the type of soulless gifting suggestions that are routinely proffered within any number of perennial gift guide lists the world round.
Gone are tacky socks, novelty ties, cheap trinkets and hip flasks in view of complex (Prohibition era) spirits, elegant continental beach blazers and rakish crochet driving gloves — amongst a host of other investment worthy sartorial/home decor keepsakes — that are each uniquely primed to satiate the needs, desires and tastes of those fathers amongst us (some of ourselves included) with a more discerning (sartorial or otherwise) eye who appreciate the finer things in life.
To wit, these twelve truly indulgent (albeit practical) gifts aptly touch upon a variety of needs, hobbies and tastes so as to all but ensure each of our fathers can lead a more stylishly refined and (sartorially) self-fulfilling life no matter which gifting avenue one ultimately chooses to pursue — intimate, experiential, materialistic or otherwise.
Ergo, I like to imagine this gifting treasure trove as a (sartorially) invigorating pastiche of fine wears and home goods capable of making any father feel like the master of his domain (whatever that may be, from beach to home); Smart investments in style, enduring quality and endearing substance, if you will, that are likely to remain with him (or yourself) for years (if not decades) to come.
With that in mind, as well as the pressing notion that neither spending time nor sharing an experience together is
at all within the cards, herewith is a cursory glance at a selection of the finest Father's Day gifts to give (or receive) this year that will help reflectively communicate your enduring love, gratitude and reverence for your father without the need arising to ever verbally let slip of any such words from your lips (although I do strongly advise uttering such kind sentiments whenever the opportunity arises whether this Father's Day or any other day in betwixt)…
Ergo, I like to imagine this gifting treasure trove as a (sartorially) invigorating pastiche of fine wears and home goods capable of making any father feel like the master of his domain (whatever that may be, from beach to home); Smart investments in style, enduring quality and endearing substance, if you will, that are likely to remain with him (or yourself) for years (if not decades) to come.
With that in mind, as well as the pressing notion that neither spending time nor sharing an experience together is
at all within the cards, herewith is a cursory glance at a selection of the finest Father's Day gifts to give (or receive) this year that will help reflectively communicate your enduring love, gratitude and reverence for your father without the need arising to ever verbally let slip of any such words from your lips (although I do strongly advise uttering such kind sentiments whenever the opportunity arises whether this Father's Day or any other day in betwixt)…
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| : 1 : Hook & Albert Garment Bag (Alternative: Cathy's Concepts) : 2 : 209 Mare Beach Blazer : 3 : Omega SRL Driving Gloves (or ASOS) : 4 : Forzieri Paisley Ascot (Alternative: Corneliani ) : 5 : Brooks Brothers Knit Tie (Alternative: Tie Bar) : 6 : Aviation American Gin |  | : 7 : Fisher | S.T. Dupont | Kaweko : 8 : Frescobol Carioca Beach Bats (Alternative: Sunnylife) : 9 : Jonathan Adler Umbrella Stand (Alternative: Crown Catchall) : 10 : Men and Manners: Essays, Advice and Considerations : 11 : Budd Pyjamas (Alternative: J. Crew | Derek Rose) : 12 : Umbrellas |
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 hese 12 gifts (or rather keepsakes) aside, if you are unsure of what to gift I'd advise simply sitting down and enjoying the pleasures of one another's company or booking a shared experience that you can enjoy and find solace in together — be it watching movies, fishing, or heading to his tailor for a fitting — as the charity of time and companionship is often all our fathers truly desire from us. The greatest gift in life, after all, is said to be that of family and being afforded the opportunity to spend as much of our time with our loved ones as is possible — within reason of course. And yet, should travelling to see one another at will not be plausible or should you hold the opinion that simply saying ‘I Love You’ is not enough to convey your affection, well then I can only hope this gift guide was of use whether you planned on sparing no expense in spoiling your father or arrived with the intent of dialling it back with something more subtle and (sartorially) wholesome that he can enjoy for years to come. | : Alternative Gift Options : |
Either or, just do remember at the end of the day to let your father know that he will always be a part of you and that you value his efforts, impact and role in your life by simply saying so or conveying any such feelings through a personal handwritten note.
Why? Because your father will certainly appreciate the gesture even if he would never let on that it means the world to him (and vice versa).
Happy Father's Day!
Why? Because your father will certainly appreciate the gesture even if he would never let on that it means the world to him (and vice versa).
Happy Father's Day!
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